If ever I can write a story well, I sure tell my dad’s story..

My dad, he is not someone that I really look up to. He is not a good husband, he is not a good father even for sometimes. But his life really a legend for me.

When he was a kid, he lived in a poor family. He told me that he only able to share a fish with other a few siblings together with white rice. During primary school he stayed with his relatives and walk 2km to school. From there he influence by his uncle and start to gamble and drink alcohol beverage. Once he get addicted and this carried him for his entire life up to now, he never stop gamble and drink but he not addicted to smoke which is good.

He has a bad temper, always quarrel with parents and quite a stubborn child. Right after form 5, he start his dating with girls. I can’t remember how many girls he date before, but he do keep those girls photo. I have seen some of them… Don’t know when he went to Singapore to work as police, and his life has major changes there. He learn to dance, go to night clubs and enjoy night life. One day he bumped into a girl name Jennifer, and he fall in love with her deeply. But Jennifer’s love life is very interesting therefore my dad always get jealous and always follow her everywhere. Jennifer already married and have 2 children, but my dad do not know about it and both of their relationship lasted for 5 years. One day when my dad go to her house and suspect there is one guy in her house, which is true. The guy scare of my dad and climb out of the room window and hide outside. My dad didn’t manage to found that guy and went home, but unfortunately the guy fall from 12 floor and die. Due to this, my dad and Jennifer have to go to CIA and record. Both of them released without charges, and my dad went back to KL and start his life over again.

He worked as sales man, and worked in sin jiu jit po before too. From there he knows my mom and date her. When both of them get married and pregnant, my mom have to work to get herself survived coz my dad like to gamble. Then I remember one time my mom robbed and the robber use knife to point at her stomach (which is me inside), of course she is safe after that. But that is dangerous.. After me and my sibling’s birth. I can’t remember how many places I have shifted. We stay in cheras, Setapak few places, to perak kedah and back to KL. My dad sued bankrupt when I was primary 3 I think, and coz of that my mom and him together bringing my brother go to USA to find job. They landed in china town and work in restaurant, 3 years they have working very hard and save a lot. They come back when I was form 1.

They have start their life over again in KL, my dad had fail in several business and my mom go out to work again. I always solute my dad in his spirit where he seldom give up in what he wants to do and never get discourage, later he know a lady name rose (so lau tu), and he start to work and come back once a week, then later once a month. I do not what he is doing but I heard is renovation. After not long ago he has affair with Rose. And both of them start illegal business which are really make me very disappointed, he has been very tired runnig around and earn a lot of money before. Even though he earn a lot, but he almost lose his family and his wife. My mom have been someone who really big hearted to accept him once again and again, she never divorce coz of all of us. She wants to support her family with financially,

After many years, by God grace the family join back together, he settle himself in Klang. Me and my sister shift to stay with him, we already use to his way of living and his so called principle. He then stop his pub business and stop his relationship with Rose, then he seems like lose everything including financial. For months he has 0 income, but somehow rather he met back Jennifer in Singapore again. Jennifer has become a rich woman with good family, and she pity and still has the sense of guilty upon my dad. Then she promise to pay back what she had owe my dad, then she bought a Honda city for him when my dad forced to sell off the car. And she bought a handphone for my dad too.. I feel like all this is a legend, when my dad very down he met back his old friend and seems like been blessed. All these seems like only seen in movie or drama and it actually happen in my family..

Jus like john said, my family indeed very weird.. I agree too.

1. Adopt-A-Rempit

A politician has suggested to his colleagues to adopt one illegal motorbike racer each, so these Mat Rempits can lead a better life. Let ' s all adopt illegal motorbike racers!


2. Tourism night to reward top toilet operator

Tourism night to reward top toilet operator By Yu Ji
KUCHING: Six new categories including an award for “Outstanding Toilet Operator” will be added at the third triennial Sarawak Hornbill Tourism Appreciation Awards.
“Something as basic as public toilet, which is usually taken for granted, plays a crucial role in creating a positive impression for tourist as they usually use them more than the locals.
“If the public here avoid using public toilets due to foul smell and general maintenance, how will they (tourists) believe anything else we promote about Sarawak?” asked Sarawak Tourism Federation secretary-general Audrey Wan Ullok at the press conference yesterday.
It was also to launch the award’s nomination period that will end on Nov 20.
The awards presentation this year aims to cover more supportive-sectors like hawker stalls, local councils, backpacker style accommodations and homestays.
“There is a need to recognise, encourage and create benchmarks for twelve segments that have contributed outstandingly to better tourism,” she said, adding that some categories were created based on sectors that needed to improve.
Members of the public are invited to nominate companies or individuals for suitable categories like in-bound tour operator, tourist guide, handicraft & souvenir, transportation, media and eateries.
The prize presentation ceremony will be on Jan 12 next year.
Audrey said the judges would comprise relevant associations, ministries and locals who had travelled abroad extensively.
“The awards hope to cover all aspects needed to improve the industry here.
“We want to find the best practices for others to emulate. Basically, it is to approach the industry from a tourist’s perspective,” said Sarudu Hoklai, Permanent Secretary of the Ministry of Urban Development and Tourism.
The Hornbill Tourism Appreciation Awards is a joint collaboration between STF, Ministry of Tourism Sarawak, Ministry of Tourism Malaysia, campaigners for ‘Sarawak more than a paradise!’ and Visit Malaysia 2007.

lol, we decided to celebrate her birthday on 11pm sunday night. I always last minutes buy present so same this time, i go to summit n looking for a book but COULDN"T find it. coming back with guilt but Thank God there is few people did prepare presents for her.

Activities goes like this, first Nat invite her to brother house. Then when she comes into the house her sheep (sheen yeen) start playing a song for her - brother house has a electric pianio ! after that all of us, who hide in a room come out sing a birthday song to her.

The fun part is the games, Khai Ling - the most creative game master in our misdt thats what i so proud of wuahahah. lead us in 2 games,

first one is call FAITH game. meaning that;;
one person stand in the center, the rest make a circle. the center person need to fall back (jus like how u slain in the spirit but this one is with conscious mind) and the rest of the people will push you and the person to each other. therefore the person in the center need to trust ur people at the back fully.. it is very fun, at first charlotte is reluctant so few of us like me also be the "example" to play the games first. But finally charlotte make it LOL>. not forget the big size A PUNG also play.. wuah haha

second one is UNITY:
everyone of us also sit in a circle. sit close to each other and we hold hands to the person oposite you or up to you. then we try to stand up together. this is hard, imagine when 12 people try that. at last, pung n fei ling don wan to play this. and all of us try again, and we make it.. hahahaha

=) thursday i will bring charlotte to celebrate valentine's day lo

many people giving comment on me that i always think about money.

well, money does matter to me. When i start working, if i don't have saving, i will feel like it is no use to work. n 5 months working, i save almost none. yea maybe got around 100 like that, but i was truely dissapointed.. really.. dissapointed where i don't really have the motivation to work

I am discourage when people telling this is jus an RM50 things, why worry?
why i am worry? coz many times, that's is alot of jus RM50 things to spend.

if i no need to spend the rm33 internet, rm40 house phone, rm16 engine oil, rm62 lisence renewed, dono how much on office stationary( i know can get it back, but once get it back need to spend awa again), those unessasery trips, u know how much i can save with all the money? AIH .. i know giving is good, spending for God is good.. but sometimes i really really struggle alot n alot n alot.

n i hope that one day this matter wont affect me anymore

why i blog here? i also don't know. Btw today is my first day blogging here =)

i like this blog name.. just simply because I am so lazy to think and always want to be a simple person =)